lfar: Okay, “off the market”. I’m okay with OTM. But taken? That means that somebody took you. It’s so possessive. I don’t think that “off the market” is any better at all if we’re going to get really into it. I was never for sale in the first place. Perhaps I should have said “not single” or maybe “I’m currently in a relationship with an individual who I like very much and am no longer interested in pursuing romantic entanglements with others”. :)